Tag: introspection

Take Aways From Carson Kressley

Past TV show, How to Look Good Naked, on Lifetime, with Carson Kressley, was  putting women on the radar, to embrace themselves from head to toe in their individual beauty!  He is going to Oprah’s OWN Network (their website).
Ladies!  Carson is just one of many reminders that we need to make ourselves feel good inside and out of our skin.  Most men are just gorgeous doing nothing, so let us learn to be less preoccupied with our silly hang ups and accept every part of ourselves.  Shake what your mother and father gave you, stop focusing on what other people define as beauty. I truly believe the world is our mirror, whatever we put out, we get back, so believe and live your best beauty  for yourself.  This  important Quote Beauty is only skin deep” has always  repeated itself  through centuries so absorb it !

Live, Love, Authentically!!!

When , or what is it going to take for people to appreciate the things in their lives.  People need to discover who they are authentically and live there life that way.  I watched a re-run of Oprah’s interview with Rosie O’Donnell addressing personal questions of The View, her break up and just baring  her soul.  Rosie shared that she was a motherless child ( from age 5, I believe) and suffered a great deal through life because of it.   I love to hear people speak about their self discoveries,  issues that they had as children and how it limited them in adulthood, and by searching deep enough they  rid themselves of their limits.  People need to take inventory of their life , it is their reality, no one is living  life for you or through you, but you.  Every individual comes with  his or her own blue print , sometimes through the decades it fades or gets changed.  Who do you share yourself with if you do not have a grasp of who you are, or afraid to share yourself?  Do not let fear,anger, anything  get in the way of it!  It is one life, one body.

Are The Problems Of The World Internal or External?

My Internet family, share what you think I have always wondered what the rest of the world ponders over.  Do you take accountability, or is  the mess in your immediate life, and across the globe somebody elses?  I came to find out that everything we question judge etc…) or everything productive, and good missing is all inside us:

  • love
  • respect
  • peace
  • joy

Your validation of love comes within you, for yourself.  If we were better human beings, wouldn’t our outlook for the world be to improve it rather than to dismiss it?

  • Education
  • Money
  • Nutrition
  • Pollution
  • Segregation

these are the main problems we share across the globe.  Education is our key component to improve all of our heartaches about the mistreatment of  the ecosystem they all have, and share an important place in our planet !

I feel that when people look outside themselves for solutions, that is the majority of the battle right there.  People want to place blame on the things they think hold them back, but it is only yourself.  If you clear yourself of negative views, negative thoughts you invite , and allow room inside yourself for growth, improvement, endless possibilities.   You will make significant contributions, and change to the things around you, (family, community, etc…) or the world.  Aren’t we the highest ranking species on the planet?

We are the driving force making the devastating decisions that are occurring around the globe.  We can not just sit idling by waiting for our government’s , their legislative branches  to screw us and our planet out of quality of life.   It starts with us , every country has a system in place, if it is not working then We the Masses need to demand a change.  How can we accomplish this if we are not willing to  change within our self first?  If you stay preoccupied with lower level thinking ( your own ego)   worried about what people think of you, how mad a  motor vehicle driver made you  etc… the list is never ending, and all this is stored inside.  The lower level thinking occupies lots of unnecessary space, it creates paralysis within you, not to look at the bigger picture of your life and the life around you.

No More Voids

Important to readers, that this is my version or depiction of emotions and experience in my role as a daughter and sister.   I understand that everyone who is part of a family has there own.  Growing up I always had a void to fill, of being close with my family.  I had my ideal family in my head, that we would play, share, connect and challenge one another, but being a little different, and lacking the tools to bring closeness, I learned to isolate and withdraw myself from sharing or interacting with them.

I spent time with friends, and they were a small outlet for me.   Your peers at a younger age are impressionable to you because they reflect your age, they share your same world of youngsterville.  When we are young, our voice only carries so far, we are just  smaller  intelligent little people.  So for all you parents out there, never dismiss your child because of  their age or size, they were born with a brain just like the rest of us adults.    The magnificent brain that houses all our motor and logic abilities/ skills.  We need validation and acceptance that we are an individual and still  an important piece to the many parts of our family unit.  I did feel ostracized from my family, or reminded that I was different, but in a negative light. We need input from our family but it can not be all ridicule, negative feedback.  Those things stay with you.

I have had mother figures, father figures, sister figures, that stepped in or showed up in my life when my soul needed it.   Luckily I did not substitute my void with drugs, alcohol, men, the vices in the world.  Some where in my divine being I knew I was more than flesh and bones and pain.   We all encounter people that substitute a void and unfortunately for some, they substitute unhealthy and deadly substitutions.  Through the years I have learned to fill that void, exploring within myself  to improve the love for me, to love me, and to carry it over to my family and the world outside of me.  It has always been with me, inside me, the love I have for myself, I just needed to remember and be my best friend and  my own adviser.  No one sees or hears within you but yourself!

I hope my family  comes to understand what has always been in my heart, I would never replace any of them.  I do not hold grudges or look back, we all do what we know how at the time, that is why you have to dig deep within yourself  when you want to be an example of what you want in your life.  When our communication and actions do not convey or express what we truly want to say, or what we need, we should always aspire to strive for that, be better to ourselves and to the world inclusive around us!