My sister and I were discussing how rude children are these days and they get it from the rude and ugly behavior that is playing out on social media. Not to mention the fact , that many households have both parents working, so parenting has taken a back seat. People are overworked, underpaid and then have to pay in and follow all the rules that non caring, out of touch people make. It amazes me that congressmen, lobbyist, corporations sit at the top of the pyramid and continue to be there. Remember CEOs make ridiculous bonuses and salaries, because the money is not trickling down to the people, in our world who actually do the work, to make it into its existence in the first place. There is no one man company.. There are no true investments being made to improve our world, it is all a smoke screen, theater,. We have programs to feed, save the children, animals, children who are ill, disabled ,however, our children and animals are suffering on such a massive scale. Anything goes nowadays and by anything, nasty behavior. shallow priorities. .We the people of the world have a lot of work to do in our homes, our community, our world. We have to reconnect back to was is really important, not the things that do nothing to improve ourselves, family, community or world.
Children get their marching orders from their parents, teachers, coaches…etc.. I see a world where children are constantly being ordered, told what to do. Children are playful loving, caring and we destroy that amazing spirit, or limit it, stifle it. We need to show them , explain to them the reasons or reasoning behind things, Adults out weigh them, out smart them, or manipulate them, they have no way of defending themselves. No one wants to be told what to do everyday 24/7, they need to understand these rules and maybe some of these rules are not real or effective in the first place. If you want a healthy independent responsible child then you need to remember when you were a child and how you wanted a listening ear, voice of reason, not orders.
It makes me think of an awesome man Brandon Fouche who rehabilitates aggressive dogs labeled as ” to far gone to rehabilitate”.. I did a post back on May 29, ,2014, Louis Theroux did a documentary in Las Angeles about the huge amount of abandoned dogs . We can not abandon our children, no matter how tired, over worked, this is where one has to reassess everything in their lives and maybe make real changes to improve oneself and his family, community, world around him. I relate the two ( dogs and children) because we are not teaching animals, children how to be, we are taking our ugly energy and trying to get great obedient followers.! They feel our energy, so check your energy, vibration you are putting out ! Be clear about what your intent, desired result, not surface, for the moment, however, a long term, long lasting understanding of things.