Yesterday, while my nephew was visiting It just came to me that when children become teens, finding themselves and their place in the world/universe they observe the people, things around them. I am curious about his world so  I asked him about how, or what, is the interaction between himself and friends, do they connect on a face to face human interaction or is it all by text ? I did not get a response however< maybe he will read my post and we can continue the conversation another day.  I wanted to share or leave him with a vision or thought. and it was this, that children come into the world with either two parents, mother and a father, some only have moms, some just dads, some with just grand parents.  As a child,  you are growing up in your own individual family, you observe and learn the interactions being displayed and acted out in front of you.  Parents always want their kids to do what they say not what they do however that is so incorrect. Parents, guardians, teach children how to behave, interact, with their actions and words.  Children are mirrors, reflecting back their parents behaviors, actions and words. So as we are coming to understand generation of parents  were misinformed, and misguided by incorrect, indoctrinized constructs . It may be a hard truth pill to swallow, however when you choose to do the work on yourself, you will wish it happened years ago !A childs  view,  belief , trust in people, humans is not exactly correct.  If they see ugly behavior, language  actions, that their parents display they need to not lose hope on humanity. People are not as horrible as they seem, do not give up on loving, caring for your fellow man, or woman, each individual has to do their work to realize how they were operating, behaving in such a silly inefficient way..  Be self aware, be accountable of who you are, what kind of thoughts feelings and action  you are putting out to the people around you, your community, your world , the universe .