I have found that there are people who are oblivious to themselves. They can do no wrong, everyone one else is the problem, the trouble maker, they are the victims in every situation. People with ADD have this huge social issue that they are not even aware of. I was not even aware of the convoluted issues associated with ADD/ADHD. I stumbled on this page and it was mind blowing. Where is the accountability for their actions ? How do they get help ? How do they help themselves ? ADD individuals think everything happens to them, or at them. We all have to know who we are and make peace or find peace with things that have broken our hearts, angered us. Self awareness is hard enough for most individuals without a mental disorder, so add that challenge to the mix. I think people have to dive deep within themselves and trace all the things that impacted their lives negatively, and realize they were isolated instances, that not everyone, or everything is out to hurt them.
I have mentioned mental disorders before, and I do so because we never know what or who we are dealing with. Never judge a book by its cover, there is so much beauty and good however not understanding something can misdiagnose a persons true being.