My sister resides in the state of  Virginia right now. She is an amazing human being and has been a wonderful influence, she is my sounding board.  She is the calm perspective to some of my red buttons. My brother-in-law is in the military so they have traveled and lived a few places in the U.S. and overseas. I have not gone to visit her yet however I would like to.  I miss seeing the changes my niece and nephew are making as individuals.  Children grow up so fast.  Hopefully she will make it down for the summer with the kids so we will be all present.  I will have to step up my game this year and do more visiting then I did last year.  I’m on my crusade of fun !