Iowa is where my Dad’s family is from. Within the last two years we lost my cousin Mike and recently my cousin Keith. Now my uncle Richard is taking a turn for the worst. I can only imagine what his children and spouse are going through at the moment. Nothing is for certain, my uncle may take a turn for the better and be around a few more years. Some of us experience the loss of a loved one sooner than others, and we all have a different way of dealing, coping with it. Unfortunately time is what notify s us of our healing.